Showing posts with label simpler times. Show all posts
Showing posts with label simpler times. Show all posts

Wednesday, February 6, 2013


Taking a break from posting more of my latest story, Learning Lea.

There are reasons we follow our inner promptings. Why we strive to achieve our goals. Follow our dreams…wherever they may lead us…. Today reminded me of that in big band, techni-color brilliance that had me smiling the remainder of the day.

It began with something simple. I needed to find a notary. Not something one needs every day. But when needed, it cannot be avoided. So I searched my brain for where I’d seen one located—a little postal shop that’s been able to serve my needs since I moved here.

When I arrived, there was a person in front of me. Came my turn, and I inquired if they had a notary on premises. The woman I asked, smiled and pointed to the man—the owner—standing beside her, who was helping another customer. I’d seen this man and he’d helped me on numerous occasions. Pleasant, easy-going and eager to help, he looked up at me and said, “I’ll be with you in three minutes and half a beer.”

My brain spun out at the half a beer comment, but recovering quickly, I joked, “It takes you a whole three minutes to down half a beer?”

The owner didn’t miss a beat and shot back, “No, three minutes to finish with this customer than thirty seconds to throw back half the beer.”

I laughed, knowing I’d been outwitted. A second later, another employee came out holding two longneck bottled beers, each in an insulator sleeve. He looked at me and said, as if it were the most natural thing in the world, “Can I get you one?”

At this point, I just burst out laughing, thrilled at having followed my instincts to move here—to my unique locale that closely mimics a tropical paradise mentality.

For the past thirty years, I’ve wanted to live in this area. Why? Simple. Today’s experience reminded me that one a person could go back in time—to simpler times. Ones where folks take care of one another. Appreciate their neighbors. Enjoy life and just plain don’t allow the every day hustle and bustle to get to them. Ya know…the way it used to be—thirty years or so ago.

LOL.

Who would’ve thought that places like this still existed—in Southern California? I would, cause I’ve spent every available amount of time I could visiting up here for just the very reason that I like how things used to be. When things were simpler. Folks cared about one another. Enjoyed life. Meant and did what they said. Ya, know…when folks could be counted on.

Smiling and appreciative, I turned down the beer I’d been offered. And for the next half hour, I had the most enjoyable time, joking and laughing with the storeowner, his two employees and the other customer—also a published author—who was an absolute hoot.

Just goes to show. If one follows their inner promptings and strives remain true to their goals, things tend to be a heck of a lot more enjoyable—even the simpler ones, like getting a legal document notarized.  

Wednesday, Dec. 5, 2012


This season seems to herald in a time of reflection.  Whether you celebrate any of the numerous holidays or not, the winding down of the year brings with it a time of remembering years gone by.  Past traditions.  Loved ones.  It can be a time of unadulterated joy, immense sorrow or anything in between. 

For me, this season causes me to reflect more than I usually do.  And I like that—reflecting.  Why?  Because I believe it helps to keep me grounded.   Remember the things that are really important, not those that the media and society try to fool us into thinking are significant. 

More so than other times, this is a time of year when I actively seek out the simpler things that make me smile.  Those things, places or activities that make me feel light and fulfilled inside. 
Case in point.  I was in a thrift store the other day where I located three woven rattan hot pads.  Now most wouldn’t get as excited about such a little thing.  But then, I’m not most people.  Seeing the hot pads brought back fond memories about when my ex and I would go to Thrifty’s dollar days—the only time we could afford to buy anything—to find items for our kitchen and household. 

It was at those dollar days, almost thirty years ago, that I found several rattan hot pads, similar to the ones I’d just located in the thrift store.  I was able to afford to buy the Thrifty’s dollar days hot pads that week and enjoyed using them for over twenty-five years. 

When I moved a few months back, I was only able to locate one of the hot pads and took it with me, smiling over the happier times associated with it and how effective a hot pad it had been.  So, when I spotted the three in the thrift store, bound together with packing tape, as if they had just been waiting for me to find them, my heart soared and I laughed aloud at my discovery.  Yes, literally laughed.

My purchased simple hot pads cost a mere dollar, but the happiness they’ll provide, years of use over the next thirty years or so and pleasant stroll down memory lane…yeah…can’t put a price tag on that.