So often, folks make the mistake of thinking that it’s their position—standing in life—that will make them happy. This isn’t the case. If in doubt, ask many a lottery winner their opinion on this subject. A good number will share they were much happier prior to winning it big.
So, if it’s not one’s position that makes them feel enriched, then what does? I think it’s a person’s disposition that guides them to happiness or not. The dictionary’s description of disposition is: a person’s inherent qualities of mind and character. And here, I believe the description fits.
Think of it this way. A person can have all the money, recognition and influence in the world, but if they have a negative attitude or lack a strong character, none of that will matter. Instead, they’ll be in constant search of what they can’t buy. Something that comes from within and drives us all, yet not many seriously listen to. Those who do are rewarded tenfold for their due diligence.
A strong mind, made healthy by constant use and filled with positive thoughts goes a long ways towards making us happy. To gain this costs us nothing more than for us to open our eyes, take an honest look at ourselves and be willing to replace negativity with positive energy. Likewise, a strong character can’t be bought. It comes from within, stemming from those qualities a person knows they should act upon, not the ones society tells us will further along our ultimate position.
I try to live my life remembering these guidelines. That if I maintain a healthy positive mindset and a strong character, those are the things that will ultimately make me happy.
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