“The deepest principal in human nature is the craving to be
appreciated.” This is such a
lovely quote by William James. Its
sentiment, though simple, is anything but.
Humans need to be
appreciated. Just as flowers need
the light of the sun to guide their growth, so too do humans need the rays of
appreciation to inspire them to do more.
Be more. Continue on.
It’s such a simple thing—to show/tell another that they’re
appreciated. And yet, many
overlook this crucial step. Some
withhold praise as if they believe doing so will cause others to work harder. It doesn’t. Instead, it fosters discontentment that if allowed to fester
can undermine a person’s actions in negative ways.
Really, how hard is it to say, “You’re doing a great job,”
or “I’m proud of you,” or “You’re amazing?” If words aren’t your thing, then why not demonstrate through
actions your appreciation?
Something as simple as a smile, pat on the shoulder or hug goes a long
ways towards generating good vibes.
It proves to the receiver that they’re worthy. They mean something to another. Their actions don’t go under the radar but stand alone and
make a difference.
Again, the deepest principal in human nature is the craving
to be appreciated, so why not extend an olive branch of appreciation for
someone to cling to?
Wonderful advice. I could try to do better with this. I think I'll give it a go this weekend.
ReplyDeleteHey Tracy,
ReplyDeleteWoohoo! Let's hear it for more shows of appreciation.... : -)