Tuesday, January 31, 2012

Here’s something new.  When writing my blogs, I share philosophies, my life experiences, thoughts on this and that, perceptions about self-growth, suggestions to make one’s life run more smoothly and snippets of behind-the-scenes with my writing.  Each day, I give thought to what readers might enjoy glimpsing, mindful to keep those things positive based. 

So back to the something new….  Today, I thought I’d ask readers a question I never have.  Is there something I haven’t blogged about—a subject you might like highlighted—that you’d enjoy reading my blogged perceptions about? 

Monday, January 30, 2012

As a writer, one of the things I enjoy most is to get people to think when they read what I scribe.  Whether that’s breaking down stereotypes, figuring ways to better one’s self or more efficient coping skills with all life tosses one’s way, if I can get folks to stop and ponder the possibilities, then I believe I’ve succeeded.

Of course, there are times when readers disagree, refuse to have an open mind or just don’t have a clue what I’m trying to express.  Some might think this would frustrate me.  It doesn’t, for I recognize that there’s vast diversity in how folks think and act.

I applaud that diversity.  Whether or not it mirrors my own beliefs is irrelevant.  What is important is that I offer respect to let others maintain their own thoughts about things instead of trying to mold everyone into a “mini me.”

Hopefully folks “get” that when I write, I’m simply offering suggestions of things that might be or a variety of ways to think about things.  Folks are free to take what I offer or not—simple as that.  But either way, if I get them to stop and ponder the possibilities…if only for a moment or two, then that makes my day.

Sunday, January 29, 2012

There’s something magical about a smile.  Ever notice how when you return a smile, the bestower seems to stand a bit taller?  How your simple gesture puts a literal bounce in their step?  How when you bestow a smile upon a stranger their entire face softens?  Doesn’t matter if a moment earlier they wore a mask of stress.  Seeing a person smile at them relaxes that stressed look, allowing them a moment to forget their troubles, someone having taken the time to offer them kindness.

I adore meeting up with my friends, for each of us is deeply connected and sincere about our affections towards the other, never sparing a smile or kind word.  Last night, I met up with some friends, most of whom I hadn’t seen since my surgery at the beginning of the month, to celebrate one of those friend’s birthdays.  The moment the friend caught a glimpse of me, their entire face lit up, their features relaxed and I could see the joy and relief on their face. 


Coming to me, we embraced, and I was showered with comments from that friend and others, about how wonderful it was to see me up and about and out again.  Now it was my turn to have my face break into a broad grin, reveling in the love of my friends, the kindness they bestowed upon me and drinking up the smiles they flashed.  It was, indeed, a magical moment, one I won’t forget.

Saturday, January 28, 2012

A friend recently made an observation that’s so simple, it’s beyond complex in its reality.  They stated a person is only happy in a relationship when they feel self-confident.  I added that the only relationships, which manage to survive, are those where each person is willing and capable of maintaining a somewhat regular level of self-confidence.  For when a person allows that to slip away, so too, does their ability to maintain perspective, a positive outlook and have the energy required to propel them—willingly—into what may come.    

Friday, January 27, 2012

Following, are some thought breadcrumbs, sent to me by a friend, to help start off your weekend….

I Believe.... 
That just because two people argue, It doesn't mean they don't love each other. 
And just because they don't argue, It doesn't mean they do love each other.

I Believe....
That we don't have to change friends if We understand that friends change.

I Believe....
That no matter how good a friend is, they're going to hurt you, 
every once in a while and you must forgive them for that.

I Believe.....
That true friendship continues to grow, even over the longest distance.
 Same goes for true love.

I Believe.... 
That you can do something in an instant That will give you heartache for life.

I Believe....
That it's taking me a long time To become the person I want to be.

I Believe....
That you should always leave loved ones with Loving words.
 It may be the last time you see them.

I Believe.... 
That you can keep going long after you think you can't.

I Believe....
That we are responsible for what We do, no matter how we feel.

I Believe….
That either you control your attitude or it controls you.

I Believe....
That heroes are the people who do what has to be done
when it needs to be done, regardless of the consequences.

I Believe....
That my best friend and I can do anything or nothing and have the best time..

I Believe....
That sometimes the people you expect to kick you when you're

down will be the ones to help you get back up.

I Believe….
That sometimes when I'm angry 
I have the right to be angry, but that doesn't give me the right to be cruel.

I Believe...
That maturity has more to do with what types of experiences you've had 
And what you've learned from them and less to do with how many birthdays you've celebrated.

I Believe....
That it isn't always enough, to be forgiven by others. 
Sometimes, you have to learn to forgive yourself.

I Believe....
That no matter how bad your heart is broken, the world doesn't stop for your grief.

I Believe....
That our background and circumstances may have influenced who we are, but, 
we are responsible for who we become.

I Believe....
That you shouldn't be so eager to find out a secret. 
It could change your life forever.

I Believe....
Two people can look at the exact same thing and see something totally different.

I Believe….
That your life can be changed in a matter of hours by people who don't even know you.

I Believe….
That even when you think you have no more to give, 
When a friend cries out to you, you will find the strength to help.

I Believe….
That credentials on the wall do not make you a decent human being.

I Believe….
That the people you care about most in life are taken from you too soon.