Tuesday, April 10, 2012

Relationships set their own level, or will, if allowed.  What does this mean?  Simply put, relationships will flow like water, the individuals involved, traveling through life’s trials, tribulations and joys bound together by a common denominator.  Matters not if the relationship is that of friendship, business or romance.  If folks are willing to get the heck out of a relationship’s way and let it chose its own course rather than forcing their will on it, then all will benefit from the union. 

Does this mean the relationship will last?  Who knows…?  One thing is for certain.  Nothing lasts forever.  Things, people and situations are in a constant state of flux.  This last comment isn’t meant to be negative, just factual.  We’re born, grow, evolve, and then begin our process to leave this earth.  Many of the relationships we enter into mirror this pattern.  But all is not lost. 

Even relationships that end need not do so on a sour note.  Some will, but many more can be remember with fondness as we choose to focus more on the positives and lessons learned rather than how or why the relationship ended.  In this, we allow a union to choose its own course—to teach us valuable lessons along the way and provide us a solid base of favorable memories.  If the relationship lasts, all the better, for the mere act of it surviving the day-today challenges life provides indicates the appropriateness of the relationship.