Friday, December 16, 2011


There are times when keeping the peace is more important than making one’s point.  Take for example, the instance where individuals have to interact with one another.  One says or does something that’s out of line.  Is it prudent for the other to add fuel to the fire by getting upset?  Or will everyone’s purpose be better served if they hold their tongue, bide their time and allow things to smooth over? 

Sometimes, it’s better to address things right away.  But other times, doing so only inflames an already tense situation.  That’s when I believe it’s better to consider one’s options to see it there might be a better time to address the issue, perhaps once tempers are a bit calmer and those involved can think more rationally rather than reacting with their emotions.

Many of our lives are complicated and hectic.  This time of year tends to add to that.  Couple the aforementioned with individuals being forced to interact with those they might normally opt to avoid, and things can get a bit dicey.  Adopting a plan ahead of time that allows one to diffuse a situation as smoothly as possible is a good idea.  Not only will it help mitigate problems that arise but also it will go a long ways towards keeping the peace.       

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